Boyfriend visits online dating sites
Scenario #1 You’ve been on multiple dates and it’s obvious you both like each other, but you’re not exclusive just yet.
As you’re deleting old messages, you see she’s changed her profile picture.
The bottom line is, still being active when you’re in an exclusive relationship is a pretty bad thing.
He or she might not be cheating, but they are definitely disrespecting you and your relationship. Has anyone ever found their significant other on a dating site?
You meet someone awesome; start dating, and then suddenly you realize they still have an active online dating profile.
And sometimes it’s not from snooping or being devious; sometimes it just happens. Here are a few examples of how/when it can happen and how to handle it like a rational human being.
Or you’ll just chalk it up to this person being a jerk that mislead you or is sneaking around behind your back.
And then you could miss out on what could have been.
If this sounds like your situation, you’re not alone.
In some cases, this could cause what he saw as a healthy, budding relationship to end abruptly.
I’ve had several readers write me they argued with the man they were dating to ask if I thought they had made the right choice.
What You Do The one thing you shouldn’t do is verbally attack the guy or start throwing out ultimatums.
If he’s hesitating because he’s concerned about commitment, this approach could scare him off.